@the guy below me: It depends on what you're going for. It seems like you're wanting to be a heavy meleer, so you'll want vgr for hp, end for stamina, vit for armor and str for damage. Just focus on finding a weapon you want to use first, get the base str/dex you need to weild it and then focus on the other stats. People usually go to 40 vgr, 30-40 end if the build allows, maybe 30 vit or just use prisoner's chain (It's a ring) and Ring of favor for for equip load and 50 str. If going full str, go 50, if you want str and dex go 40/40. Heavy infusion if you go full str, refined infusion if you got str/dex. You can use bundles/resins to buff.